
Valerie Bertinelli Looks ‘Too Thin’ as She Responds to Critics Following Her Underwear Photos at 64
In her lengthy message, the 64-year-old actress reflected on self-love, overcoming judgment, and embracing her body. She began by thanking those who resonated with her message and offering gratitude for their support before addressing critics of her appearance.

Valerie Bertinelli appears on “Today” on January 7, 2020 | Source: Getty Images
The actress shared that she has faced judgment from a young age but emphasized that only her own perspective, shaped by “patient discernment,” truly matters. Over the years, Bertinelli has turned inward, choosing to focus on personal character rather than external perceptions.

Valerie Bertinelli at Build Studio, New York City, on August 21, 2019 | Source: Getty Images
With hard-won confidence, she shared that it took nearly three years of emotional labor to overcome self-doubt and free herself from the weight of others’ opinions. This journey was compounded by physical setbacks earlier this year, which, though challenging, ultimately strengthened her resolve.

Valerie Bertinelli is honored on the Hollywood Walk of Fame in California on August 22, 2012 | Source: Getty Images

Valerie Bertinelli attends the 39th Annual Emmy Awards on September 20, 1987 | Source: Getty Images
Accompanying her statement were mirror selfies showing her in a black top, glasses, ripped-flare jeans, and black shoes, with one hand in her pocket and the other holding her phone.

Valerie Bertinelli’s mirror selfie, posted on December 3, 2024 | Source: Instagram.com/wolfiesmom

Valerie Bertinelli appears in “The Kelly Clarkson Show” on March 30, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Another user commended Bertinelli’s confidence and resilience, “You look great no matter what size clothing you wear. So happy that you’re able to put other people’s judgments out of your head!!”
In the makeup-free bathroom shot, the Hollywood star stood near a sink, wearing a black two-piece outfit. Her hair was down as she held up a box of hair dye to the camera.

Valerie Bertinelli attends the Elton John AIDS Foundation’s 32nd Annual Academy Awards Viewing Party in West Hollywood, California, on March 10, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Fans had mixed reactions to her revealing picture, with some criticizing it as unnecessary and questioning her decision to share such a personal image. Others deemed the photo inappropriate and urged her to seek therapy.
Some harsh opinions emerged, criticizing her decision to post the photo. Critics questioned the appropriateness of sharing such images at her age.

Valerie Bertinelli at the “Harry Potter and The Order of the Phoenix” premiere in Hollywood, July 8, 2007 | Source: Getty Images
However, not everyone was critical. One fan praised her for “looking fabulous,” while others celebrated her confidence and openness, calling her an “inspiration.” Admirers collectively expressed positivity, commending her fantastic look and boldness in sharing her message.

Valerie Bertinelli appears on “Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen” on October 18, 2017 | Source: Getty Images
Bertinelli has made significant progress in embracing her body. This led her to write her book “ Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today,” which was released in 2022.

Valerie Bertinelli on April 23, 1990 | Source: Getty Images

Valerie Bertinelli poses for a portrait in Los Angeles, California, in 1985 | Source: Getty Images
Additionally, when she starred as a teen in “One Day at a Time,” she got more comments about her body. “I was made to feel I could lose a few, like, let’s see if we can get you into a smaller size,” shared Bertinelli.

Valerie Bertinelli on “One Day at a Time” in 1983 | Source: Getty Images

Valerie Bertinelli on “One Day at a Time” in 1983 | Source: Getty Images
Furthermore, Bertinelli shared that she had shifted her focus away from the number on the scale, choosing instead to gauge her progress by how her clothes fit, particularly a favorite pair of jeans. She emphasized that true growth comes from inner work rather than obsessing over external measurements.

Valerie Bertinelli at the 51st Daytime Emmy Awards held at The Westin Bonaventure Hotel in Los Angeles, California, on June 7, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Valerie Bertinelli on “The Kelly Clarkson Show” on March 30, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Bertinelli actively reframed her relationship with food, turning a potential negative into a strength. Once a symbol of love from her mother and grandmother, food became her passion again, especially through her work on the “Food Network.”

Valerie Bertinelli on “Today” on January 7, 2020 | Source: Getty Images

Valerie Bertinelli attends the 64th Annual GRAMMY Awards at MGM Grand Garden Arena in Las Vegas, Nevada, on April 3, 2022 | Source: Getty Images
Valerie Bertinelli expressed hope that her story would inspire others to be kinder to themselves, believing it could also help her strengthen her own self-compassion. She seeks to reach anyone who may need her message of self-acceptance.