Charles Spencer’s Estranged Wife Leaked His 18-Year-Younger Girlfriend’s Serious Diagnosis – What His Blonde New Love Looks Like
Earl Charles Spencer at a special book signing event on March 3, 2015, in Santa Monica, California. | Source: Getty Images
However, what began as a fresh start quickly turned controversial when private details about his new love’s health were allegedly leaked by his estranged ex-wife, igniting a legal battle. Take a closer look at the Earl’s divorce from his third wife and meet his much younger girlfriend.
Earl Charles Spencer at the ICAP charity day on December 9, 2015, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
In June 2024, the news broke that Earl Spencer and his third wife, Karen Spencer, the Countess of Spencer, were getting divorced. The couple’s 13-year marriage reportedly unraveled under the weight of personal challenges, including the strain caused by the Earl’s memoir.
Earl Charles Spencer and Karen Spencer at the wedding of Emily McCorquodale and James Hutt at The Church of St. Andrew and St. Mary, Stoke Rochford, on June 9, 2012, in Grantham, England. | Source: Getty Images
The book, which recounted the harrowing abuse he endured during his boarding school years, is said to have taken a heavy emotional toll on the relationship.
Earl Charles Spencer, Ann Widdecombe, and Countess Karen Spencer posing on the opening day of the Althorp Literary Festival on June 13, 2013, in England. | Source: Getty Images
The couple, who married in June 2011 on Althorp’s grounds— where Princess Diana is buried — had been introduced the previous year on a blind date in Los Angeles.
Earl Charles Spencer and Countess Karen Spencer at day 3, Ladies Day, of Royal Ascot on June 18, 2015, in England. | Source: Getty Images
Countess Spencer, a Canadian philanthropist, had been a steady presence by the Earl’s side throughout their marriage, overseeing various projects at Althorp and supporting his public endeavors.
By late August, the Countess confirmed in an Instagram post that she was still living at Althorp, adding to the intrigue surrounding the state of their relationship.
Countess Karen Spencer, and Charles, 9th Earl of Spencer, at the BBC America BAFTA Los Angeles TV Tea Party 2017. | Source: Getty Images
In November, she took to Instagram again, sharing in part, “It’s been a challenging time, but also one filled with so much generosity and kindness,” offering a glimpse into the emotional complexity of the situation.
While the details of their separation remained closely guarded, the announcement marked the end of a chapter for the Earl, whose personal life has often been in the public eye.
Charles and Karen Spencer at the Whole Child International’s Inaugural Gala on October 26, 2017, in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images
Earl Charles Spencer and Countess Karen Spencer at the wedding of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle on May 19, 2018, in Windsor, England. | Source: Getty Images
A New Love and a Controversial Revelation
In an interview published by The Mail on Sunday on November 24, Earl Spencer opened up about finding love again with Dr. Cat Jarman, a television archaeologist. Their connection began as colleagues working on a project at Althorp.
Earl Spencer and Dr. Cat Jarman | Source: Instagram/charles.earl.spencer
Despite the closeness that eventually developed between them, the father of seven insisted that romance was not on his mind initially.
“[I] wasn’t looking, neither of us were,” he explained. “I am 18 years older than Cat, and so there wasn’t even the possibility. I’ve never been with a much younger person. I wasn’t even thinking romance. I was at the tail end of a marriage. It just wasn’t a possibility.”
Cat Jarman in conversation with William Dalrymple at a session during the Jaipur Literature Festival 2022 in India. | Source: Getty Images
“She found out from someone close to me — someone I don’t want to drag into this,” Dr. Jarman explained. “But in the course of a conversation about whether I had been having an affair with her husband…Karen learned that I have MS. It was also confirmed to her that this was not something that was widely known.”
Dr. Cat Jarman answering questions for Wired in September 2024. | Source: YouTube/WIRED
“I understand that she was hurting, but why would you share private medical information like that, without consent, especially when you knew it was private — and secret? It has been the most stressful time, and with MS, you are told that it is most important to avoid stress,” Dr. Jarman stated.
Dr. Cat Jarman during a TEDx Talks event in 2019. | Source: YouTube/TEDx Talks
Dr. Jarman explained, “I resorted to writing to the Countess, via lawyers, asking her to desist from sharing intimate details about my life. And I also asked her for a list of everyone she had told.” The Countess reportedly ignored these requests, prompting Dr. Jarman to take further legal steps.
Dr. Cat Jarman during a podcast appearance in April 2024. | Source: Instagram/nevillholtfestival / catjarman
The court documents emphasized the sensitive nature of the information, stating, “Dr. Jarman did not, at any time, provide her consent to the Countess to disclose that information to any third party or intimate anything to that effect.”
“This lack of consent should have been obvious to the Countess, given the nature of the private information and the circumstances in which it was imparted,” the court documents continued.
The Countess has signaled her intention to defend herself against the claims, setting the stage for what could become a high-profile legal battle.